Monday, August 10, 2009

I Heart Documentaries

We shot another wedding on Saturday, which was pretty fun. GORGEOUS weather ( 75 and sunny with no humidity in AUGUST? Who gets that lucky?!), cute couple and an AMAZING AMAZING band. And then we had Sunday off. Slept in, had some breakfast, rode our bikes over to Astoria Park, which was cool. It was too humid to sit and enjoy it though, so we rode back home, ran some errands and settled on the couch with a glass of wine to chat. Lovely. Then we watched two documentaries.

The first was Geoff's pick: Ben Stein's Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed.


Interesting. It explores the suppression of scientific debate with regard to evolution and intelligent design (which is actually different than creationism, though not a lot of people know that). Very interesting. What I found interesting is that the leading scientist on Darwinism couldn't say how the very first cell came to be (the cell that all life came from). And said that no one knew for sure how it happened but that it absolutely COULD NOT have been created through intelligent design. Absolutely not. No idea how it happened. Just definitely not that way. And I'm thinking….if you're a scientist, and you don't know how something happened, don't you have to at least consider all options? And not let your personal religious beliefs or lack thereof, get in the way? Just a thought.


The second documentary was my pick: The Business of Being Born.

FASCINATING. Completely Fascinating. Now, I'm not pregnant and not planning on it for another couple of years. But this was really interesting to me. It is produced by Ricki Lake, who became interested in the maternity care system in America after the birth of her first child. It combines historical facts with current statistics and personal stories. Their goal, I think is to properly educate women about options outside of what has become the "traditional" way women have babies, a process in which, they argue, hospitals don't actually always have the best interest of the mother and child in mind. I certainly learned a TON. And I'm sure there is bias there, as there can be with most things, but it definitely was illuminating on the subject. And blew apart certain pre-conceived notions I had about midwives and home births. And raised a lot of questions. I would recommend this film. I'd be interested in what my friends who are moms would say, having been through the process. The film does get graphic, so squeamish husbands beware, as they do show several home births and you see it ALL. But I found it fascinating. Fascinating/Terrifying. But fascinating nonetheless.

You can watch both of these through Netflix, and they are both available to watch online under their "Play Now/Instant Queue". Which means free extra movies besides the ones that come in the mail. Which I love. We are now obsessed with the Instant Queue, as we purchased a Blu-Ray that allows us to stream those "Play now" movies to our TV instead of on the computer. Which is amazing and available through the magic of technology that I don't understand. But am grateful that someone else does.

4 comments:

beckley said...

oooh, that sounds like a fun toy to get on your tv screen. we gave up our dvr, so now we nothing to watch when we want to.

hey- is SYTYCD on anything for rental?!?!?

and i'm trying to cue my memory on the creationism-intelligent design debate...not cueing. the guy who wrote, Intelligent Design got thrown out of Baylor. huh. i studied intelligent design and darwinism, but not creationism. i just know there's a museum in OH that thinks the earth is 10K years old and my son would about throw a kinipt if we took him there.

as for babies, i had a nurse-midwife for both births in 2 diff states. if i hadn't, i likely would have lost my son. she saved his life. we birthed in the hospital, and it was dangerous and near-tragic, and the hospital was chomping at the bit to do an emergency c-section after 15 hours of labor and 2 hours of pushing---which can be very dangerous at that stage due to decent. and he was in bad shape.

my mid-wife saved his life. she also called in a special team from children's to save him. the thing is, if we had been at home i don't know that he would have made it. and i have friends who have had great home births. you just never know when you have the kid with the VERY rare cord around neck and abdomen like i did- like some tiny percentage of 1-2%, or with 98% head size on not 98% mommy...or not midwife with magic skills...if i knew i were having a safe, easy birth- sure- natural child birth with a small child was no big deal, but with my big, dying baby- it would have been bad.
i guess we all make the best decisions we know how, and keep on the hospital systems to start loving us more than money and defense of lawsuits. oh, and never judge other moms. we all do the best we can and we are all different people making different decisions.
and it's late. and i'm babbling.
peace-

Anonymous said...

Hi Kate and Geoff!

I got your comment on my blog about my red bike in italy. Thank you so much!. I hadn't seen it before. I have so many images to post but I've been very very busy. Thank you for taking the time to write.

I do have a question for you....what blogger template are you using and how do you get your photos to be so large? Is is a custom template? My images are always so small. I would love to know!

I will go back and view your images, are they in 2008 june and july?


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Thanks! Janet

Megan said...

saw both of those movies & both are SO interesting...so much so that i was on soapboxes about both topics for quite some time after i saw both of them. good good stuff.

Kate and Geoff said...

robin, you might really enjoy both documentaries. and the interesting thing about the Biz of Being Born is that they advocate what is best for mom & baby and that every case is different. And sometimes that does mean getting to a hospital if things are remotely dangerous. i was well balanced and said basically everything you just said. and more. i would check out netflix online if you have it. And if not, you can come over to my house and watch.